Tuesday, April 26, 2016

April Showers bring Flowers

Growing up in southeast Missouri we were blessed with a growing season from April through October.  The snow belt ran about twenty-five miles north of Sikeston, Missouri.  I always looked forward to April, when the rains came, and the daffodils popped their heads through the earth.  The arrival of daffodils was uplifting, like seeing a happy smile.  

Around the perimeter of our back yard were various flowers to enjoy.  My mother had a prized red rose bush in the southwest corner.  Near the rose bush was a large bird bath that was often used by the birds in the summer.  I don't remember the name of the variety of rose, but the variety was one that was pleasantly fragrant.  Many days, I went to that corner of the yard to enjoy the smell, look at the roses, and watch the birds bathe and play.

We had several hydrangeas planted on the eastern border of the property.  One was pink, and the others were blue.  Many years had passed before I learned that the type of fertilizer made the difference in the color.  Occasionally, we brought in hydrangea cuttings and made a bouquet for the living room.

In the far southeastern corner of the backyard, tall bamboo cane grew many feet tall.  The best I remember, they grew eighteen or twenty feet tall.  On occasion, my parents cut some canes and made fishing poles out of them.  The problem with the cane plant is that it is invasive and grows where it is not wanted.  It was removed in the late 1950s, and removed again, to get rid of the predatory plant.  My Dad finally had to dig the roots up to remove the cane and to rid the property of the plant.

When I left Missouri the last time, in 2008, my intention was to take a cutting of one of the hydrangeas from my parents home and to plant it in Louisiana.  I failed to do that, but I dug up a bucket full of Liriope (ground cover or border grass) and moved it to Louisiana.  It flourished and over the years I have enjoyed sharing cuttings from the original Missouri Liriope with friends and family. 

Flowers and gardens are to be enjoyed by many and appreciated for their beauty.  The flowers start with the April showers and remain beautiful with daily and weekly watering by people throughout the summer.  Gardening is one of the few rituals still enjoyed reaching back to the medeival times.  For the next few weeks I will Blog about family memories and the joys of memory.

Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Memories of Sikeston, Missouri

                                         


Most of us who grew up in a small town have fond memories of our hometown.  For me, it was Sikeston, Missouri. We could walk anywhere, anytime and by yourself, if we wanted.  We knew the neighbors on both sides of our house and usually many more neighbors.  If my parents were not home for some reason and I needed an adult, I just went to a friendly neighbor.  We knew all the neighbor kids that went to school with us too.


I have posted pictures to bring back memories of the place.  From the library to the Bank of Sikeston with its painted mural (I believe it is a Thomas Hart Benton mural) on the back wall, to Kirby's Sandwich Shop.  Everyone knew you, and we were kind to one another.
  
Those of us born in the mid-1940s experienced a freedom of movement that children today could hardly imagine.  We could get on our bikes and ride all over town as long as we were home by the time our Mom told us to be home.  I was blessed with good loving parents, but I am sure there was some child abuse back then too.  We just never heard of it.  Not one of my friends talked badly about their parents.  Their siblings were another story.  That has not changed over the years.  It was not perfect, of course.  The relations between Blacks and Whites were not acceptable. Many Whites had a feeling of superiority over Blacks, and I was uncomfortable with that back then, and still am today.  As a child and teenager, you just seem to go with the flow.  Today, I defend my opinion, when different than the majority, in as non-offensive manner as possible. 
   
Who could forget the Jaycee Bootheel Rodeo?  I looked forward to purchasing my western clothes for the rodeo, the Rodeo Parade, and learning who the movie or TV star would be that year.  I wish I had saved some of the programs to remind me of all the stars that appeared at the Rodeo while I lived at home.
    

     
Another great memory is of the Gay 90's Village and all those moving and loud musical instruments.  I begged my Dad to take me there all the time.  We would go out to the Village about once a week.  Sadly, it is gone now, but I am grateful to Mr. Eakins for restoring all those beautiful instruments so they can continue to bring joy to old and young alike.  My husband Tom and I visited Eureka Springs, Arkansas in 2006.  In the lobby of one of their historical hotels stands one of the larger models roped off to the public.  In the front left corner is a sign stating, "purchased from Paul Eakins of Sikeston, Missouri."  Just think, I played the instrument in the Gay 90's Village weekly.  Today, it is by special invitation only.  I think a bit of each of us remains the child from our hometown.  Our hearts skip a bit when we connect to those formative years.

Sunday, April 17, 2016

Remembering My First Home with Tom & Tina

I am looking back at some of the homes we owned over the year and found the first house we bought. It was only 1,400 square feet of living area, plus a basement but it seemed big to us when we first bought it. I think our house payment was $88.00 a month when we bought it in 1972. This picture was taken in January 1973. I could not find a front view in the summer. We spent five wonderful years there, and I remember watching Tina walk to the bus her first day of high school. It was sad, and I shed a tear, to know she was growing up so quickly. Thank you, God, for allowing me to retain my memories. The house was located at 13 Gloria Lane, St. Peters, Missouri. The house was active with our daughter Tina and her friends going and coming. My parents came up to visit every eight to ten weeks. Our friends from St. Charles visited often and I remember our New Years Eve party we gave in 1975! That is a story of its own.

I began researching my family in this house.  I had no idea how important genealogy would become in my life.  It led to my presiding over Scott County Historical and Genealogy Society, writing the Scott County Newsletter for five years, and serving on the MissouriState Genealogical Association in Columbia, Missouri for several years.

My father, Curtis H. Cline, planted a tree in front of the house.  We drove by the house in 2006 while we were in the area, and the tree was as tall as the house.  I wish my  Dad could have seen it before he died in 2002.  Tom and I built the house and the three of use visited it every few days until we signed the papers and moved in.  I enjoyed sharing my life with Tom and Tina in this house.  I hope the owners that followed us enjoyed it too.

Tuesday, April 12, 2016

There is Value in a Smile

I have noticed many times that a simple smile brings hope to those who are hopeless and feel defeated.  It cheers those that have much to be grateful for in this world.  A smile is nature's best remedy for discouragement and depression.   It brings rest to the weary, communicates sunshine to those who are tired and down on their luck.  We have all been there once or more times in our life.   It is imperative to care for our family's emotional well-being above all else.

A Smile is so valuable that it can not be bought, begged, borrowed, or taken away against anyone's will.  The important thing is you must give a smile away before it can do anyone good and it cost you nothing!  What a wonderful gift.
   
Show the tired, the grumpy or sick a smile.  Your smile could make a difference in the other person's life.  Who knows, they may start smiling at others too.  Now, would that not be a blessing?
   
A smile is a frown turned upside down.   We grew up hearing this, so in those days no one smiled at you, stand on your head and look in the mirror upside down - you will smile at yourself.  I learned to turn over my worries to God several years ago, and I have been smiling ever since.
      
Ask yourself what you want your family to remember about you.  Would a SMILE not be a nice thing to have them remember you?  Try smiling...you will be happier yourself and so will everyone else.


Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Developing Your Family History is Gratifying

To me, family history is the most fascinating story individuals can read. Or, where no family history exists, to discover it for themself and then write it.    
I remember the time I received my first requested military pension record. It was for William F. Cline, my paternal great-grandfather, pictured to the right. I learned that he was five feet ten inches tall, had a fair complexion, blue eyes, and light brown hair. Wow! I am five foot eight inches tall, have a fair complexion, am blue eyed and my hair was blonde when I was younger, and now I am brown headed.
To my knowledge, the best, and often the only place, to gain the knowledge of ancestor's physical description is from military records.
  There are billions of records, including military records, on-line through Ancestory.com, Findmypast.com, WikiTree.com and other on-line genealogy sites. These sites have annual fees to use their alphabetized and multiple historical databases. Are they worth the cost? You bet they are! Experienced genealogist, like myself, remembers the need to get in a car, drive to a distant courthouse, and often courthouses in other states, to learn, or confirm, information on ancestors. Once there, genealogist comb through county record book, after heavy record book, to learn birth, marriage, death and property records on our forefathers. Then genealogist would rent a motel room in the local county seat, or in a nearby town. Many county seats of government are in or near the center of the county and are small towns. Many do not have motels or other services for which most Americans are accustomed. Only once was I lucky enough to stay with a relative I only talked with by telephone, before my visit to where some of my ancestors lived. That was a treat, and I will always remember, and appreciate, the hospitality George and Brenda Kreig showed me in Ft. Branch, Indiana. They own a family farm north of Evansville, the county seat of Vanderburgh, Indiana.
  I am still working on the follow-up Blog of the Price Family that lost their house and the lives of family members in the Killer Tornado back in 1916. With the ability today to view period, and specific newspapers, and federal census records, writing non-fiction histories allows us to learn far more than expected. It is very gratifying to use documents and papers to bring the lives of our ancestors into readable existence. 

  To travel from county to county and other states in pursuit of family history is expensive. When you travel alone, it can also be lonely and costly. With the existence of Ancestory.com and related websites, the family historian can now develop their family history from the comfort of their homes.

Thursday, March 31, 2016

1916 Killer Tornado Remembered

    My thoughts this spring, are on the 1916 Tornado that hit four states, including southeast Missouri. After they cared for the injured and recorded the dead, the headline read:
Tornado Killed 30 and Injured 75 in Missouri.
    My great grandmother, a great aunt, and five field hands were among those counted in the dead. My Grandfather, Henry Price, was reported as injured but he died nineteen days later from injuries received that sad, dark day.
     Related tornadoes reportedly killed 83 people in four states, but the number used to report Missouri's lost in that early report was only 14. The other three states experiencing the death and destruction from the storm were Arkansas, Mississippi, and Illinois. I wonder what the final total was after a week of recovery?
     The path of the tornado reportedly started near Jackson and traveled to Vicksburg, Mississippi.  It was next reported as capsizing the Mississippi River Packet Eleanore along the Arkansas banks of the Mississippi River. It then lifted up from the Mississippi River and followed the path of the river a few miles to the west in Arkansas. 
     The deadly tornado happened a century ago, June 5, 1916. One of the results from the storm was that my Mother always felt the loss of not knowing her father who died from injuries received the day the tornado swept the Prices' two-story home off its foundation and into a thousand pieces.  
     After the storm passed, Carrie Rettig Price first checked on her mother-in-law, Cummy Grandstaff Price (my Great-Grandmother).  She found her lying on the ground near the home's foundation.  Carrie soon realized Mrs. Price was dead.
    Carrie then hurried to find her husband, Henry Price. To her shock and horror, she found Henry alive but pinned to a tree by straw through his body. Carrie cried to others family members to help him. She then looked for her thirteen-month-old daughter, and could not find her. A group of surviving family members and neighbors began to search for the toddler.  The group heard a small child crying in a distant field of corn; the searchers followed the cry until they found her, nearly a quarter of a mile away from where she played just minutes earlier. She was scared but alive and well. That child was my mother, Marie Price-Cline.
     Carrie Price was eight months pregnant the day the tornado hit the Price farm.  Her husband was severely injured, and she was frightened and confused.  She looked in the direction of the small home she, her husband and young daughter shared nearby and it was still standing, seemingly unharmed.  She wondered why they fled the small house to go to the larger one.  They thought it would be safer.  They were very wrong.
     The patriarch of the family, James D. Price helped removed his son Henry from the tree.  He prepared his wife for the mortician.  Then he left the group to be by himself and with his thoughts.  He lost his wife, and a daughter-in-law that day, plus five field hands that also had to be prepared for the mortician.  When he returned, the farm was busy with neighbors and others from the area who came to help retrieve what they could for his family.  They also brought food and drink for the Price family, along with moral support.
     My grandmother, Carrie Price, told me the area looked like a war zone.  Carrie went into shock briefly but understood her new responsibilities would not allow for such a thing.  Her dreams were blown away along with the Price house and its contents.  On the 23rd of June, Carrie gave birth to her second daughter, Beulah Virginia Price.  Her husband saw her briefly before he sure come to infection caused by his injuries.  He died June 25, 1916.
    My Mother was always terrified of storms of any kind. Is it any wonder? The wind took more than her father and grandmother in 1916; it took her feeling of security for most of her life; it also made a widow of twenty-two-year-old Carrie Price.  The thought of the loss of her husband and the unknown future without him to help her raise two babies overwhelmed her for months.  Nothing would ever be the same again.  What would she do?




Wednesday, October 21, 2015

Robin Pope Remembers the Great Depression

Robin is the “go-to-man” if you want to know what happen way back then, or last year.  He has an incredible recall of facts, figures, people and faces.  He grows a large garden every year and is generous in sharing the fruits of his labor with the local Food Bank and with members of Zachary United Methodist Church.  He talks with a distinctive southern drawl and is an engaging person.  I asked a question, then Robin started off with an enchanting answer.  Here are his responses to my interview questions. Unless historically important, I have removed those strictly related to Zachary United Methodist Church.
“I was born in Philadelphia, Mississippi on April 12, 1933, at my Grandparents Robert’s house.  Momma always went to her parents’ house to have her babies.  I am the son of Burton Ford Pope, from Angie, Washington Parish, and Gladys Roberts from Pineville, Louisiana.  After a couple of weeks we returned home to the farm where I grew up in Zachary, Louisiana.  I had a blessed childhood, even though times were tough.  We lived a mile and a half from church and I grew up without electricity, running water or indoor plumbing.  We used kerosene lamps to see by at night, we had to pump our water for drinking, cooking, cleaning and bathing.  There was no inside bathroom.  You went outside to the rear of the house and used an outhouse.  It was cold in the winter and hot in the summer.  People did not go to the store the way we do today.  They went for coffee, salt and pepper and other staples.
A few people were hired at the Ethyl plant but the idea was that anyone over thirty was too old.  A number of people worked at Esso, now the Exxon –Mobil plant.  The rest of the area people worked at whatever they could find to do and also raised a big garden.  There were two cotton gins in Zachary so everyone that owned a farm or could rent one would plant cotton.  Most of the farm people could not afford a car or the up keep.  Therefore, when Sunday morning came, some people came to church in their cars and picked up their neighbors and brought them to church.  Some people came to church in the farm wagon, others had buggies and some rode saddle horses.  I remember looking out the Sunday school building and watching Mrs. Molly Loudoin getting out of her buggy and hooking the horse to a large oak tree.  Mr. Willie Barnett rode his horse from the Barnett Road to church.  After church he stayed in town and visited with members of his family.
            Mrs. Pearl Lucas was Sunday school superintendent and as we got older we went to Mrs. Merrill Annison’s Sunday school class.  This was Carruth Annison’s mother and Andy Annison’s grandmother.  Her idea of teaching Sunday school was to learn about the Bible and at the same time learn about the Methodist church and other churches.  She prepared her students on the belief of the Methodist church so they could become members.  She started and taught confirmation classes.  She also arranged visits to other churches so we could understand how many things were common with other denominations, and also the differences.  We went to a Catholic church and the priest was most helpful telling us about their beliefs.  We also went to the First Methodist, First Baptist, and the First Presbyterian churches in Baton Rouge.  The church that impressed us most was the Jewish Synagogue in Baton Rouge.  We had to study about the early teachings of God from scrolls.  The Jewish Rabbi brought out the Scrolls used in their services and showed us how they were unrolled and read.  The Rabbi spent about an hour explaining the differences between our church and the Jewish religion.
            The next year the boys and girls had different teachers.  The girls had Mrs. Edith Henderson, the boys had Mr. Howard Henderson.  Boys that were ten were often kind of loud, so Mr. Howard found a tent that would hold 15 to 20 people and set it up behind the Sunday school building.  We had a good increased attendance when we had Sunday school in our tent.  Later he found a camping trailer made in the 1930s, and there wasn’t much in the trailer except some benches.  We spent the rest of the year having Sunday school in the trailer.  He did put in a heater for the winter and a fan to help keep it cool in the summer.
            Mr. Henderson believed the Sunday school lesson you had to learn about service to your church.  Every Saturday morning he had us meet him at the church and help do what needed doing at the church and Sunday school. I remember that the wooden church had a chimney but the stove was converted to burn wood and coal.  After Sunday school class we rang the Church bell to let everyone know it was time to dismiss Sunday school and go to church.  One time we pulled on the Bell rope so hard that the bell turned upside down.  Monday Mr. Henderson got a ladder and climbed up in the Belfry to turn the bell back over.  After this we had better be careful how we pulled on the bell rope.  My favorite church friends were Gordon Smith, Jimmy Babin and J. L. Kirkwood and the girls were Jessie Lou Devall and Amelia Ann Lucus.
            The next thing he taught us was how to usher and take up collection.  When I was nine, most of the boys or young men were working long shifts or worked nights so they were unable to work as ushers.  Therefore, Mr. Howard had our class take up collection every Sunday.  One Sunday while taking up the offering (the collection plates were made of wood) the side of the plate I was holding broke off.  The rest of the plate and the double hand full of change rolled to the front of the church.  The church had a gradual slope so the ones in the back had a good view of the preacher.  One elder member had a very small income and she would bring a dollar and take out 90 cents change.  One Sunday she took 90 cents change and forgot to put the bill into the plate.  I have been an usher off and one ever since. And I have a commitment to try to find things that I can do for the church and do them.  Mrs. Carpenter was one of my favorite Sunday school teachers, along with Mr. Henderson and Grandma Henderson and Howard Henderson. I remember in the 1930s, Zachary did not have electricity or running water either.  Main Street was a gravel road and our farm road was dirt.  For a couple of  years we walked to church but once Momma started playing the piano, church folks with cars would come pick us up so she would be there prior to church starting.  Our car was parked in the barn because we could not afford to put gasoline in or tires on the wheels. 
            As a mostly agricultural state in the Deep South, Louisiana was greatly affected by the Great Depression.  As I said earlier, we raised a large garden.  People in the area that had no food learned that my family would give them food.  Some would walk as far away as Baker to get food.  Even the Blacks could come by and my mother fed them too.  It was hard times for folks without a job and that was almost forty percent of the citizens of the area.
            Everyone remembers World War II for different reasons.  I remember that there were over one hundred training facilities for soldiers and officers in Louisiana and Mississippi.  One large such facilities was in Centerville and it was named Camp Van Dorn.  There was a lovely lady who lived near the camp who opened her house to these men and showed them true southern hospitality. While blessing them with comfort food and conversation, she liked to show her bell collection to the “boys.”  To show their gratitude for her hospitality, many soldiers sent her back bells from where ever they were based.  By the end of World War II she had bells from all over the world.
            Port Allen had P.O.W. camps where the Germans helped with farming chores.  Louisiana was not alone in hosting P.O.W. camps.  There were many across America, primarily in the south or agricultural state and the German prisoners wrote back to their camp personnel how they appreciated the good conditions of the camps and the good treat Americans showed them while they were prisoners. 
            Zachary Methodist Church was the only church in Zachary that had a bell.  When it was announced that World War II was over, someone ran to our church and started ringing the bell.  Everyone knew something big was up and started coming to the church.  Another person took over and continued ringing the bell until the church was filled with people of ever denomination.  There were cheers and tears.  It was spontaneous happiness and the church overflowed with people celebrating!    Rev. Lewis, pastor of the Baptist church came to the spontaneous service and gave the longest prayer I ever heard.  It was quite an event and I will always remember that day.  I was about twelve years old when the war in 1945.
            In my adult life, I served in the U.S. Army. I did not like Ft. McClellan, Alabama.  American P.O.W. were returned there from Korea.  There were far too many high ranking officers and soldiers in one camp.  They had sergeants doing work a private would normally do.  In 1957 I went to work at Copolymer.  I just asked for a job and was hired.  I worked there for 35 years.
            I would offer these words of wisdom to young people.  Learn to do a number of things and do it the best of your ability.  Learn how to talk with people and you will have a good life.”